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	<title>Comments on: Embryo Adoption</title>
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		<title>By: Webs</title>
		<link>http://www.bearla.com/talk/2006/11/19/embryo-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-3317</link>
		<dc:creator>Webs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 01:22:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To Admin: Well whatever decision you make I&#039;m sure will be the correct one for you and your family.  And I wish all the best.

&lt;blockquote&gt;DOF: Got to get over our wierdness about technology - especially when it enhances family life and brings people together.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Couldn&#039;t agree more.  This is just an issue of being afraid of what technology can do, and really makes little sense.  Too bad.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To Admin: Well whatever decision you make I&#8217;m sure will be the correct one for you and your family.  And I wish all the best.</p>
<blockquote><p>DOF: Got to get over our wierdness about technology &#8211; especially when it enhances family life and brings people together.</p></blockquote>
<p>Couldn&#8217;t agree more.  This is just an issue of being afraid of what technology can do, and really makes little sense.  Too bad.</p>
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		<title>By: Administrator</title>
		<link>http://www.bearla.com/talk/2006/11/19/embryo-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-3295</link>
		<dc:creator>Administrator</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Nov 2006 03:55:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Point.  Part of our wrestling with this is that we&#039;re still dealing with real people (me/mj/potential future baby from us/potential future baby from someone else)that we want to do right by.  

Sometimes it&#039;s dark out there on the front lines of this.  But, in my mind, it&#039;s an interesting place to be.  Ethics becomes less of a spectator&#039;s sport and more of a call to &#039;jump in the game&#039;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Point.  Part of our wrestling with this is that we&#8217;re still dealing with real people (me/mj/potential future baby from us/potential future baby from someone else)that we want to do right by.  </p>
<p>Sometimes it&#8217;s dark out there on the front lines of this.  But, in my mind, it&#8217;s an interesting place to be.  Ethics becomes less of a spectator&#8217;s sport and more of a call to &#8216;jump in the game&#8217;.</p>
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		<title>By: decrepitoldfool</title>
		<link>http://www.bearla.com/talk/2006/11/19/embryo-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-3294</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Nov 2006 03:49:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My sister-in-law was a surrogate mother for a couple that couldn&#039;t have a baby.  Such a wonderful gift to them and yet her church was so mean to her about it that she wound up leaving.  They basically called her a whore.

Got to get over our wierdness about technology - especially when it enhances family life and brings people together.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My sister-in-law was a surrogate mother for a couple that couldn&#8217;t have a baby.  Such a wonderful gift to them and yet her church was so mean to her about it that she wound up leaving.  They basically called her a whore.</p>
<p>Got to get over our wierdness about technology &#8211; especially when it enhances family life and brings people together.</p>
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		<title>By: Webs</title>
		<link>http://www.bearla.com/talk/2006/11/19/embryo-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-3291</link>
		<dc:creator>Webs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Nov 2006 02:43:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Several organizations got together to answer the question of what should happen with the embryos that are left over after a couple had achieved their family goals.  They could be donated to research, discarded or donated to other couples looking to use embryos they themselves can produce for whatever reason.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
This should definitely be up to those that no longer have a need for the embryo.  It would be great if they donated it to science, but the decision needs to be theirs and theirs alone without interference from the government or a company.  I could imagine the complications arising from allowing another couple to use it.

Its a very interesting topic though, and one that could make it hard for a future child, almost like an identity crisis.  But to me it&#039;s not a matter of who the biological father is, but who gave birth to the child, who raised the child, and who cared for the child.  This should always outweigh the importance of anything else.

To me, as long as the parents are qualified to raise a child (I.E. they wont kill, rape, abuse, or any other horrible fill in) they are fine by my vote.  I see this just as an extension of adoption.</description>
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<p>This should definitely be up to those that no longer have a need for the embryo.  It would be great if they donated it to science, but the decision needs to be theirs and theirs alone without interference from the government or a company.  I could imagine the complications arising from allowing another couple to use it.</p>
<p>Its a very interesting topic though, and one that could make it hard for a future child, almost like an identity crisis.  But to me it&#8217;s not a matter of who the biological father is, but who gave birth to the child, who raised the child, and who cared for the child.  This should always outweigh the importance of anything else.</p>
<p>To me, as long as the parents are qualified to raise a child (I.E. they wont kill, rape, abuse, or any other horrible fill in) they are fine by my vote.  I see this just as an extension of adoption.</p>
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